Sex toys have gained popularity over time and the use of toys has become normalized in the present day. There are more and more people who use these and there is a healthy discussion around sexuality that is happening today.
Sexual enjoyment will depend on how you view sexual pleasure and how well you embrace the freedom in being your authentic self with your partner. There are so many different sex toys that you can use from vibrators, anal sex toys, cock rings, dildos, masturbation sleeves etc. that you can explore your sexuality like never before. If you are in a committed relationship or any other kind of relationship, you need to think about how open you and your partner are to each other’s sexual pleasure.
There is a misconception among some people that the use of sex toy lessens their sexual ability or impacts the sexual prowess of the partner as the orgasm is not facilitated purely through the other person. There is a fear of being replaced or a fear of the sex toy being better. Some feel they will become more dependent on the toy for their orgasm.
But there is nothing to feel inferior about when using a toy in a loving relationship. There are studies that have found that men who use vibrators or toys on their partner have higher levels of erectile and orgasm function and there is a high level of sexual satisfaction. Generally, couples who are more at ease with each other when it comes to intimacy and sexual pleasure will be able to try sex toys and this will increase their passion and desire in the long run.
Sexual pleasure is a personal thing and being open to different kinds of sensations with your partner can lead to a higher level of satisfaction in the relationship and there is more openness between the couple as well. You will find yourself having more fun and getting to learn the quirks and kinks of your partner in different ways with the use of toys.
The communication and the level of openness between the couple will determine whether the use of toys has a positive impact on the relationship. Partners will be able to open up about what they find pleasurable and they will feel accepted by the other and validated. This will bring the couple closer together. But there should be positive communication and a level of trust. So there is no judgment that occurs inside the bedroom.
The use of toys will open up communication about what the couples feel, erogenous zones, how they experience pleasure etc. This will lead to a high level of satisfaction in terms of sexuality and the relationship. You need to practice good hygiene when you use toys so that they are kept clean. There is a lot of confidence that each partner will get with the use of a toy and the easing of stress levels will help the relationship as well.